Thread: Son beats mother in Rawalpindi
27 Jul, 2020 at 3:04 am #1https://www.dawn.com/news/amp/1570493
Rawalpindi police on Tuesday registered a first information report (FIR) against a man and his wife after a video of him beating his mother went viral on social media.
Rawalpindi CCPO Ahsan Younis took notice of the video showing Arsalan allegedly beating his mother Gulnaz Bibi and directed Rawal Division Superintendent of Police (SP) Rai Mazhar Iqbal to register a case and arrest him.
SHO Sadiqabad Tahir Ahmed Rehan, on the instructions of the SP, lodged a case under sections 354 (assault or criminal force to woman with intent to outrage her modesty), 337 A-1, and 337 L-2 and got the medical examination of Gulnaz Bibi done. Hospital officials said the medical report would be submitted to the police within a week.
In the FIR, Gulnaz Bibi, a resident of Dhokla Ali Akbar area of Rawalpindi, alleged that her son and daughter-in-law would “fight with me every other day”.
“At 7pm on [Tuesday] night, they pushed me, beat me and tortured me intensely,” she said.
Bibi’s husband, Ghazali Meer, told DawnNewsTV that he was not present in the house when the incident took place. He claimed that his stepson has breathing problems and his daughter informed him of the incident over the phone. He added that when he got home, he found both his wife and his stepson lying on the floor of the house.
“My stepson complained to me that Gulnaz had broken the car’s mirrors and it had been badly damaged,” he claimed, adding that his wife had not let him meet the police when they tried to contact him and instead “snatched his phone away and used very vulgar language with the police officials”.
Meer said that Gulnaz was his second wife, adding that she has two daughters and two sons from her previous marriage. “The daughters are married while one son is in England and the other (Arsalan) lives with us”. He said that he had one daughter with Gulnaz who lived with them in their house.
Meer alleged that his wife also “tortured” his stepson and daughter-in-law which is why the matter had come to this point and had also reached the police.
Early on Wednesday morning, a video emerged on social media of Arsalan’s stepsister Zoobia Meer, in which she sought justice for her mother. She claimed that police had released Arsalan an hour after they submitted a complaint against him.
According to Zoobia, her brother had beaten her with a wiper as well, following which their mother used the same wiper to damage Arsalan’s car and subsequently lost consciousness.
While the mother and her daughter were taken to safety by some neighbours, Arsalan with the help of his in-laws took away cash, certain documents and some jewellery, and tore apart their clothes, according to Zoobia.
She said police were not taking any action even though their medical examination report “clearly stated” that they had marks of physical abuse on their bodies.
Zoobia acknowledged that she and her mother had also hit Arsalan back, but claimed that it was only in self-defence.
SP Rawal Division earlier said that Arsalan, who owns a car showroom, and his wife had fled and raids were being carried out to arrest him.
However, it later emerged that the couple has obtained interim pre-arrest bail from a local court.
According to the court orders received by police, Arsalan and his wife are on interim bail until August 6, police spokesperson Sajjad said. He added that the couple was expected to join the investigation in the case.
Meanwhile, Arsalan’s wife Bisma told DawnNews that she had been married for four years and had a 1.5-year-old daughter. “I cannot even tell you what my mother-in-law did to her son.”
She claimed that her mother-in-law had been “torturing” her for four years but she had never spoken about it to save her marriage. “I had to necessarily show the other side of the picture when the case reached the media and police. My mother-in-law and her daughter even hid my daughter’s milk.
“I was tortured every day but remained silent. If the son lifted a hand on his mother, then there must have been reason to do so,” she claimed, adding that her sister-in-law had gone to bring the police but had not told them the “truth”.
“My mother-in-law tortured [me] first, which is why the matter reached this point.”
Punjab Chief Minister Usman Buzdar while taking notice of the incident directed the Rawalpindi Regional Police Officer to submit a report and directed that Arsalan be “immediately arrested”.
He also directed that “justice be ensured for the mother”.
27 Jul, 2020 at 3:14 am #2Initially when I read this news I thought the son was stepson and wasn’t happy with his Dad’s second wife. But then someone told me, read it again Arsalan is stepson of Meer but mother and son are real no step there. Now there are many sons who take side of mom or wife in Saas bhau bickering. Some beat up their wife to appease mom. But this is one unique case where real sone is beating real mom to protect his wife.
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Violence on women in any capacity is disturbing, deplorable and should be criminalized. But this is beyond all that. Son is beating real mom and she is grabbing his testicles in defense. This family took MIL-DIL fight to unprecedented levels.
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27 Jul, 2020 at 3:46 am #3شیرازی جی – آج کل کون سی لگا رہے ہو ؟
یہ خبراور ویڈیو پانچ دن سے سوشل میڈیا پر چل رہی تھی ، پولیس والے کی ماں جی کے ساتھ تصویر بھی خوب وائرل رہی
یہ خبر بھی چلی ، کے بیٹا اور بہو دونوں نشہ کرتے ہیں ، پہلے بہو کرتی تھی اور اب دونوں کرتے ہیں وغیرہ
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27 Jul, 2020 at 4:49 am #4شیرازی جی – آج کل کون سی لگا رہے ہو ؟ یہ خبراور ویڈیو پانچ دن سے سوشل میڈیا پر چل رہی تھی ، پولیس والے کی ماں جی کے ساتھ تصویر بھی خوب وائرل رہی یہ خبر بھی چلی ، کے بیٹا اور بہو دونوں نشہ کرتے ہیں ، پہلے بہو کرتی تھی اور اب دونوں کرتے ہیں وغیرہ
اس کو نشیہ پر ایجنسی والوں نے لگایا ہے ۔۔۔اور مائی کو مارنے والے بھی نامعلوم افراد تھے ۔۔۔
اس کی کرونا کی وجہ سے مت ماری ہوئی ہے پانچ دن پہلے کی خبر پر اج اس کی آنکھ کھلی ہے
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27 Jul, 2020 at 6:21 am #5
پاکستانی خاندانی نظام میں ماں ہمیشہ یہ چاہتی ہے کہ اس کا بیٹا ہمیشہ اس کے قبضے میں رہے اور اس کی بیوی ہمیشہ اس کی نوکرانی بنی رہے …… جائیداد اس کے قبضے میں ہی رہے … لیکن یہاں اوپر والے واقعہ میں بیٹے نے ماں کی مرضی کے خلاف شادی کی ہوئی تھی …. اور بہو کو بیٹے نے نوکرانی کی جگہ انسان بنا کر رکھا ہوا تھا …. یہ بات ماں اور لڑکے کی بہن کو پسند نہیں تھی ….. اور یہاں سے جگھڑے کی ابتدا ہوئی
27 Jul, 2020 at 8:40 am #6I know it’s older news and found it interesting but when I read first day I thought it’s stepson, but somebody told me they are real mom son. I googled and read again carefully and now that they are real it’s very intriguing.BawaParticipantOffline
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27 Jul, 2020 at 9:14 am #7یہ خبر بھی چلی ، کے بیٹا اور بہو دونوں نشہ کرتے ہیں ، پہلے بہو کرتی تھی اور اب دونوں کرتے ہیں وغیرہ
مجھے غیر محفوظ فکری بیوہ کی وہ بات اب سمجھ آئی ہے کہ
ماں کے پاس وہ چیز نہیں ہوتی ہے جو بیوی کے پاس ہوتی ہے
وہ تو ہیروئن کی پڑی تھی
پتہ نہیں فکری بیوہ نے تجسس کیوں ڈال رکھا تھا؟
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27 Jul, 2020 at 2:58 pm #8
دیکھا اب سمجھ لگی ہے جو بیوی کے پاس چیز ہوتی ہے وہ ماں کے پاس ہوتی تو آج بیٹا آج اس کو یوں گالیاں دے نہ رہا ہوتا .. اصل میں نے کچھ عرصہ پہلے جو پاکستانی گھریلو نظام کے بارے میں لکھا تھا وہ اس واقعہ نے سچ ثابت کر دیا
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